In Confidence… Part 3

Sirens, here it is.. part 3 of our series on CONFIDENCE!

I have gotten variations of this comment throughout the years: “Kelsi, you seem so confident. I wish I could be more fearless like that.”

As a woman, what is one of the biggest acts of defiance that we can make? Something that not only is a big ol’ middle finger to patriarchal culture, but something truly revolutionary in our modern world? It can be painful, and takes so much work to remove from our programming, and requires continuous and gentle work.

Maybe you guessed it: making peace with our bodies. That’s it – full stop.

This is by far the hardest part for everyone that I work with, no exception. Self-love is not easily found in our current times. Society and social media has thoroughly warped us in terms of our relation to our physicality, and billion dollar industries are built upon one simple concept: that you are flawed, and must be fixed (of course, by purchasing their products and services).

You know very well that this is a repulsive concept, right down to its rotten core. Let’s free you from that paradigm, and instead help you to more fully step into yourself.

I refuse to believe that. You are as amazing as the day you were born. Even more so, now, with all of your beautiful knowledge and physical hallmarks of your journey through life, all the way to where we find you today. Sure, yes, we are all flawed – and yet, perfect, all at the same time.

You may have heard the saying, “You are allowed to be a masterpiece and a work in progress simultaneously”. Couldn’t put it better myself! You will forever be your own best investment, and greatest project.

I don’t want anyone to feel like they need to varnished, glossed over, filtered into a version of themselves that no one would recognize. The truth is that you have been perfect all along.

I understand what you’ve felt, with the insecurities and doubts. We’ll never be fully able to make those thoughts go away since they are simply human nature, but what we can do is focus on the work to improve our inner dialogues and re-program ourselves to love.

In your coaching with me, there will be many tools that you will use to help you with your empowerment and embodiment of your truest self. This could be things like sensual self-touch, mirror work, intimate drawings, and so on. We’ll fine-tune how we use these, depending on what you need and where you are on your journey. Just like shadow work, learning how to better love yourself is a messy and difficult process. Through all the bumps in the road, I will be right by your side to help guide you as you spread your wings. Over the course of our work together, you will begin to feel a delicious change start to take place. Whether you want six weeks or twelve weeks of coaching, you will have my full support both via weekly meetings and additional sessions as you want them. Even after our program is done, heck, email me and tell me how things are going! Our community of sirens is a powerful one.

Like anything else, confidence is a muscle. I am here to help you work it.